An October Holiday

 October is the month when we celebrate Halloween—or not.  When I was a young Christian wife and mother, our church culture discouraged involvement in Halloween because it was associated with evil.  My wise and thoughtful husband took the position that our children would be different enough because of our family faith without withdrawing them from Halloween activities.  And I was happy to have the opportunity to love our neighbors by engaging with their children.  Our daughter still complains about our stuffing her pumpkin costume with newspaper to give her a pumpkin shape before going out for trick-or-treating.

 

While some historians posit that Halloween has secular/pagan roots, many scholars believe that the celebration of All Hallows’ Day originates in Christianity and goes back in time to at least the 4^th Century AD.  This is the time the church set aside to honor believers who had died.  This is why the day is also known as All Saints’ Day.  And like other feast days, it was preceded by an evening vigil: All Hallows’ Eve.

 

My intent in writing is not to make a particular argument about the pros or cons of Halloween.  I would prefer to use the celebration of All Hallows’ Day as a reminder that we would do well to remember the saints who have gone before us and thank God for their example and legacy.  Our spiritual ancestors—from the apostles to St. Augustine to Martin Luther to Mother Teresa—are now part of the cloud of witnesses spoken of by the author of Hebrews.  And of course the saints who have gone before us include not only (or even primarily) believers who are well known in history but also the lesser known and unrecognized.  Many of us have believers in our family lines that have contributed to our own faith.  This is a time for gratitude

 

All Hallows’ Eve and All Hallows’ Day also remind us that we are saints.  As we live and walk in faith, we become the hands, feet, and voice of Christ, encouraging other believers and inviting nonbelievers to consider the Lord and Savior of the world.  And then unless Christ returns first, we will die and become members of the cloud of witnesses celebrated on All Hallows’ Day.  

 

Everything In Its Time: Ecclesiastes 3:11

 Human beings, by our very sin nature, have difficulty with transitions.  The fear and shame that accompany our fallen nature urges us to seek security.  Familiarity and predictability are often a priority.  And yet research shows that there is real value in moving out of our comfort zone: Doing so empowers us as we are forced to exercise creativity and flexibility.  It is often required if we are to experience real joy.

 And here we are, looking at September, the month that most loudly signals change and transition.  While there is excitement associated with a new school year, that excitement is often mixed with stress and/or anxiety.  I believe our ability to make transitions in a confident and healthy manner can be improved if we consider some of the components involved.

 

One of the most significant factors in making a transition is our expectations.  We often set ourselves up for failure as we view the transition as larger and our abilities as smaller.  And while it is wise to be realistic, it is also wise to plant our feet on the solid ground of Scripture.  We are called to trust in the Lord and depend upon Him to make our paths straight; we are called to put on the armor of God that will protect us from evil; and we are called to walk in faith, with the conviction that the Lord is working His good purposes in us and through us as we walk through our days.  And while we long to succeed, it is often our failures that provide the Lord with the the opportunity to work for our good in the way we most need Him to.

 

Another factor that I often struggle with is the need for patience.  We can be so eager to prove ourselves, become comfortable, and establish a new normal that we don’t give ourselves an opportunity to learn, make mistakes, and grow.  Transitions, even those that we are fully invested in and enthused about, take time.  And when a transition is not as appealing to us, an extra measure of patience is in order: It may take time to allow the Lord to give us His perspective and for us to see what He might have for us in our new situations and circumstances.

 

Earlier this summer, I had a wonderful time viewing a young bald eagle family in northern Iowa, courtesy of an eagle cam.  As the two chicks grew into fledglings, I was surprised that the eagle personality that I have in my head—strong, bold, fearless—was not apparent in the two eaglets who sat comfortably in their nest and waited for their parents to deliver fresh food.  Eventually, Eaglet #1 started to venture toward the end of the nest, and then a couple of weeks later, onto a branch that extended from the nest.  Soon after, Eaglet #2 did the same.  But even that step did not accelerate the transition toward flight and independence.  The fledglings remained content to spend their days perched on branches.  Eventually, according to the course of development that the Lord has set for this transition in eagle development, the eaglets began to use their wings for their intended purpose.  I think we can learn something from eagles.

 

Transitions can be major or minor, exciting or anxiety-producing, energizing or exhausting; and sometimes they can be an unexpected combination of these characteristics.  But as we walk through times of transition, securely held in the crook of His staff, we can manage expectations and bear the Spirit fruit of patience, which will enable us to grow more and more into who He has created us to be and to fulfill His purposes for us.

 

 

 

Refined In Love

August in New Jersey.  Heat wave after heat wave.  I have never been a fan of hot weather or inclined toward sun worship.  Without a doubt, August in New Jersey is one of the tools the Lord uses to sanctify me, to expose some of my poor attitudes and lead me toward wholeness in Him.  I can’t help but associate the heat associated with this time of year with the Refiner’s fire….

 

Of course, August in New Jersey is not as hot as other locations, and there are many people who enjoy the hot weather.  But life as fallen people in a fallen world means that in one way or another, the Lord will use the stresses we experience to conform us to His image, to refine us.

 

In Biblical times, gold was refined by melting it.  That means bringing gold to a temperature of almost 2000⁰ Fahrenheit!  I am sorry to say that my trials and challenges do not need to get nearly that “hot” to expose my lack of faith and patience.  But as I deal with those trials and challenges, I can appreciate the Lord’s gentle touch and patient attitude toward me even as He uses my circumstances to prepare me for heaven.

 

The attitude that I bring when I encounter something I would prefer to avoid plays a vital role in my ability to walk in faith and remain in the crook of the Shepherd’s staff.  Sometimes the trials in our lives represent consequences for poor and/or disobedient choices that we’ve made.  And in this case, it is important for me to accept the correction, exercise a commitment toward repentance, and thank the Lord for not letting me remain in sin.  At other times, the challenges we face are less personal and more a reflection of the fall.  While repentance may not be in order in this case, an attitude that manifests faith—the conviction that the Lord is working good even though I am unable to see it—remains vital.

 

Applying a living and vibrant faith to life’s challenges does not mean minimizing or denying them.  Suffering on any level is real, and King David and the Old Testament prophets have recorded for us the distress and even despair that they experienced at times.  And that is what makes the trials we face so challenging: Satan would have us become so distracted by tribulation and so disappointed in God that we cease to seek Him.  But King David and the prophets have also recorded for us their unwavering belief in a good and sovereign God despite appearances to the contrary.  God hates the fall and its consequences!  His response is to apply His commitment to redemption to all the pain and ugliness in our lives.

 

To be sure, walking in faith in the midst of difficult times and circumstances is not easy.  There is Good News, though!  The Body of Christ is designed by God and her saints are called to love, uphold, and encourage one another.  As we invest in the life of the body in the form of a local church, we are able to hold and be held, encourage and be encouraged, empower and be empowered.  And as the body functions by the Lord’s design, everyone is blessed.  May it be so among all believers….

 

Living in Love

 "Love takes off masks that we fear we cannot live without and know we cannot live within."

                                                                                           James Baldwin

Faith Walking in a Secular World

 "...let every good and true Christian understand that wherever truth may be found, it belongs to the Master."                                                 Augustine

Sanctification by Grace

 The walk of faith is not a guilt trip.

Humility Thought For The Day

 "It is better to know some of the questions than all 

of the answers."              James Thurber